Maria, her husband Melvin and their son and one of our labradoodle that winded up being theirs.
In Costa Rica, two worlds exist side by side. Next door lies Nicaragua, a country grappling with significant challenges, yet home to many extraordinary individuals. These individuals, affectionately referred to as “Nicas” in Costa Rica, form the backbone of the nation, bringing warmth, care, and hard work into every community.
Whenever an expatriate buys a home in Santa Teresa, it’s often the hands of Nicaraguan construction workers that create it. And when someone seeks help around the house, it’s usually a wonderful woman from Nicaragua who answers the call. Despite their difficult circumstances, Nicas are family-oriented, often marrying young and raising children in the face of hardship.
Over the past five years while living in Costa Rica, I have witnessed this reality throughout the country, especially in rural areas. It was during this time that I made the decision to adopt a family—a choice that has profoundly enriched both our lives.
My Journey with Maria
I first met Maria a few years ago when she came to clean my home. Her radiant spirit was evident despite the language barrier. She spoke little English and struggled with writing in Spanish, with frequent spelling mistakes. However, I could see that she was a remarkable person.
Today, Maria is using modern technology to enhance her skills, learning English through Duolingo, and even mastering tools like ChatGPT and Google Translate. I’ve taught her a little about cooking, but I always encouraged my friends to share their culinary skills with her too. Today, Maria has blossomed into a skilled chef who treats me like family. She takes care of my pets, my children, my friends, and my home, creating a support network that enhances my quality of life in ways I never anticipated.
As a businessman constantly on the go, the relationship I have with Maria has brought a sense of bliss and stability to my hectic life. Thanks to her, I eat better, my home is tidy, and my property is well-maintained. Maria’s entire family has also contributed to the upkeep of my home.
Reciprocal Relationship of Care
What truly distinguishes our relationship is the reciprocity of care. I help her and her family with their needs—most of which are humble but vital. I pay her fair wages and treat her with respect and kindness. I frequently check in on what she needs, whether it’s covering a bill or providing support for her family. Our lives are intertwined; her well-being directly impacts mine, and vice versa.
Despite having the means to return to Nicaragua—having already purchased land there with the earnings I provided—Maria has chosen to stay. She has opted for the bonds we’ve formed, the feeling of being a family. With every act of kindness I show, Maria reciprocates abundantly.
Making a Difference Together
My journey with Maria and her family exemplifies how a simple act of care can create a profound, lasting impact. By adopting a family from Nicaragua, you can transform lives—yours and theirs.
Together, we cultivate a thriving relationship rooted in mutual respect, support, and genuine affection. In a world often driven by self-interest, the bond I’ve established with Maria serves as a reminder that human connection transcends borders and challenges.
As I reflect on this experience, I encourage others to open their hearts and consider the incredible rewards of adopting a family from a neighboring country. Not only can you change lives for the better, but you may also find yourself enriched by the love and devotion that come from caring for one another.
In adopting a family, you’ll discover something beautiful—for even in the face of hardship, the human spirit can thrive when nurtured with kindness and compassion.
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